1. Ground Goals in What Matters to Them

• What is one thing about school you’d like to feel better about this term?
• If you could master one skill by winter break, what would it be?
• What feels hard right now, and how can we make it easier?

2. Make Goals SMART (and Bite-Sized)

3. The Power of Accountable Support (Without Preaching)

• Establish Routine Check-ins: Dedicate a specific, low-stress time each week to review progress—like over ice cream, during a weekend walk, or during a weekly mentor match meetup.
• Focus on Process Over Outcome: Praise effort, consistency, and strategy rather than just the final grade. Celebrate when they stick to their study schedule, regardless of a single quiz score.
• Normalize Roadblocks: When a hurdle occurs, avoid frustration. Ask: “What got in the way of your plan this week?” and “What can we adjust for next week?” This teaches resilience and critical thinking.

4. Model Goal Setting in Your Own Life

Be the Difference: Become a Mentor Today

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When you think of the word “mentor,” what image comes to mind? Do you picture a seasoned executive in a suit offering polished career strategies? Or perhaps an expert craftsman passing down decades of mastery?

It is easy to believe that to be a mentor, you need to have it all figured out, possess decades of wisdom, or commit dozens of hours every week. But at Kinship Park Rapids, we see mentorship through a much simpler lens: being a mentor just means being a consistent, positive presence in a young person’s life. You don’t need to be extraordinary to make an extraordinary impact. You just need to show up.

Meet the Kids Waiting for a Friend Like You

Right here in our community, there are incredible young people waiting for a caring adult to step up and walk alongside them. These aren’t just names on a waitlist; they are creative, curious, and energetic kids who are eager to share their passions and build lasting friendships:

• Ava (Age 8): A quiet, sweet, and creative girl who loves drawing, reading, and her outdoor cat. Ava is looking for a patient mentor to help her try new experiences—like bike riding, arts and crafts, and swimming—in a supportive environment.

• Arlo (Age 10): Outgoing, friendly, and social, Arlo loves active, outdoor adventures. He would love a mentor to go fishing with, play sports, and share quality one-on-one time as he navigates changes like moving schools.

• Krissy (Age 15): High-energy, empathetic, and creative, Krissy loves art, creative writing, and outdoorsy activities. She hopes to learn photography, play sports, and spend quality time chatting with a supportive adult companion.

• Damian (Age 13): A thoughtful and mellow boy who excels in math, science, and hands-on projects. Damian loves video games, woodshop, and animals, and he’s looking for a trustworthy male role model to build woodworking projects with and share his passion for tech.

• Payton (Age 11): Energetic and social, Payton thrives on staying active through sports like volleyball and basketball, as well as baking and puzzles. She wants a dedicated adult friend outside her family to explore local outings and share fun experiences.

• Dayjah (Age 11): Bright and adventurous, Dayjah dreams of becoming a doctor and loves baking, road trips, and learning how cars work. She is looking for a fun female mentor to check out local spots, try new recipes, and relax over movies or books.

Every single one of these kids has unique goals, bright dreams, and hobbies they can’t wait to share. All they are missing is someone like you to share them with.

Flexibility First: No Rigid Time Requirements

One of the biggest hesitations potential mentors face is time. You might be wondering, “How can I fit this into my busy work or family schedule?”

Here is the truth: there is no rigid, strict requirement for meeting frequency.

We don’t expect you to overhaul your calendar or dedicate every weekend to mentoring. Whether you meet up once a week or a couple of times a month for an hour or two, the magic isn’t in the quantity of time—it’s in the consistency. Grabbing a pizza, helping with a craft project, or throwing a football around for an hour provides the reliable support these youth need to flourish.

How It Works: 8 Simple Steps to Becoming a Mentor

Taking the leap into mentorship might feel like a big step, but at Kinship, we guide you through every stage of the journey to ensure a great fit and total confidence:

1. Submit an Application: Start by filling out a quick application form directly on kinshipparkrapids.org.

2. Talk with Brandon: Sit down for a warm conversation with Brandon, our Executive Director, to discuss the role and ask any preliminary questions.

3. Background & Reference Checks: Complete standard screening procedures to ensure the safety and security of our youth.

4. Meet the Program Committee: Talk with members of our Program Committee so we can learn more about your personality, hobbies, and preferences to determine the best possible match.

5. Attend Mentor Orientation: Join a helpful orientation session designed to outline expectations, share best practices, and set you up for success.

6. Review Potential Mentee Profiles: Take the time to review the profile of a potential mentee to make sure you feel comfortable moving forward.

7. The Match Meeting: Attend a fun, low-pressure match meeting with Kinship staff, the potential mentee, and their caregiver to break the ice and get to know one another.

8. Start Mentoring! Begin spending quality time with your new youth match and making a real difference!

You’re Never Alone: Full Kinship Support

Stepping into a young person’s life doesn’t mean you have to figure everything out on your own. Kinship is with you every step of the way:

• Regular Check-Ins: Our team conducts routine check-ins to see how your match is progressing, offer advice, and answer questions.

• Activity Ideas: Stuck on what to do next weekend? We supply plenty of creative, season-appropriate ideas tailored to your mentee’s interests.

• Free Group Activities: We host regular group events and outings that are often completely free! These events give you and your mentee a chance to try fun local activities while connecting with other mentor-mentee matches in the area.

Ready to Make a Difference?

You don’t need a special degree, a massive bank account, or endless free time to change a child’s story. All you need is a warm heart, an open mind, and a willingness to listen.

When you mentor with Kinship, you aren’t just filling spare hours—you are showing a youth in Park Rapids that they matter, that their dreams are valid, and that someone believes in them.

Take the first step today. Visit kinshipparkrapids.org to fill out your application and begin your journey as a mentor. Your future mentee is waiting!

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This month, we are thrilled to highlight two incredible upcoming events that showcase what happens when a community rallies around its youth: The Stronger Together Project – Free Community Event hosted by the Park Rapids Lions, and our very own Kinship Activity Night at Heartland Park.

Together, these gatherings illustrate the dual pillars of youth support: broad community awareness and deep, individual relationships.

Highlighting Resilience & Awareness: The Stronger Together Project

On Saturday at 2:00 PM, Century School in Park Rapids will host The Stronger Together Project – Free Community Event, organized by the Park Rapids Lions.

Youth today face unique challenges, from navigating complex digital environments to managing mental health and cyberbullying. The Stronger Together Project was designed to directly address these modern hurdles, empowering young people to build brave, healthy minds while fostering safe, supportive environments both online and offline.

This free event brings the entire family together for an inspiring afternoon filled with:

• Inspiring Guest Speakers: Sharing vital insights on mental health wellness, cyberbullying prevention, and self-advocacy.

• High-Energy Entertainment: Dynamic performances including a live drumline to keep spirits high.

• Community Fun: Interactive games, a bake sale, and a silent auction.

Events like this serve as a powerful reminder that our youth do not have to tackle heavy challenges alone. When local organizations, schools, and families gather under one roof, we send a clear message to our kids: your well-being matters, and we are standing behind you.

Celebrating Connection: Kinship Activity Night

Following that momentum, Kinship is hosting our Kinship Activity Night on Wednesday, August 26, 2026, from 5:00 PM to 7:00 PM at Heartland Park in Park Rapids.

While large community events build crucial awareness, smaller group gatherings provide the space where relationships take root. Activity Night is designed as an open, welcoming evening of games, outdoor fun, and relaxed conversation in the park.

It’s an opportunity for youth, current mentor matches, and curious community members to simply hang out, play, and build organic connections. Whether tossing a frisbee, participating in lawn games, or sharing a laugh on a summer evening, these simple moments create the foundation for trust and belonging.

Bridging the Gap: The Urgent Need for Mentors

While community events shine a light on crucial topics and offer safe spaces to play, the real transformation happens when community support evolves into one-on-one relationships.

Research consistently shows that having a reliable, non-judgmental adult role model is one of the single most effective protective factors in a child’s development. A mentor provides a sounding board for navigating tough situations—like those discussed at the Stronger Together event—and offers a consistent presence during everyday moments like Activity Night.

Consider what a mentor truly represents:

1. A Consistent Anchor: In a world filled with shifting routines and digital distractions, a mentor offers steady, dependable encouragement.

2. A Broader Horizon: Mentors help young people discover new interests, build confidence, and envision possibilities beyond their current circumstances.

3. An Active Community Safeguard: Mentorship turns community ideals into action, ensuring no child feels invisible or left behind.

Every child deserves someone who shows up just for them—someone who listens without judgment, celebrates small wins, and helps navigate life’s ups and downs.

How You Can Get Involved

Building a strong, resilient youth community requires all of us. Here is how you can take action this month:

• Attend the Events: Join us this Saturday at 2:00 PM at Century School for The Stronger Together Project, and meet us at Heartland Park on Wednesday, August 26 at 5:00 PM for Kinship Activity Night.

• Spread the Word: Share event details with friends, neighbors, and families who could benefit from these resources and connections.

• Become a Mentor: You don’t need extraordinary qualifications to be a mentor—just a willingness to listen, share a few hours a month, and be a consistent presence in a young person’s life.

When we show up together, we create a community where every young person has the opportunity to thrive. Reach out to Kinship today to learn how a few hours of your time can change a local youth’s life forever.

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It starts with play.

In Chapter 3 of MENTOR’s resource guide, Becoming a Better Mentor, Dr. Michael Karcher breaks down why fun isn’t just a pleasant extra in mentoring—it is the core engine that drives trust, emotional safety, and personal growth.

If you’re considering mentoring in our community, here is a deeper look at what the research says about play, and why it matters so much for youth in the Park Rapids area.

1. Play is Tool #1 in the Mentoring Toolkit

In his research on youth mentoring, Dr. Karcher outlines four main building blocks of mentor-mentee interactions:

1. Playing (Shared enjoyment and fun)

2. Talking (Open communication and active listening)

3. Learning (Discovering new skills or perspectives)

4. Doing (Working on tasks or joint projects)

While all four have their place, playing comes first for a reason. Play breaks down adult-youth power dynamics, lowers social anxiety, and places both people on equal footing. When you shoot hoops, play a board game, or bake cookies together, you create a shared environment where trust builds naturally. Without that foundation of shared fun, trying to jump straight into heavy advice-giving or skill-building can feel forced or intimidating for a young person.

2. Activity-First vs. Goal-First: Why “Side-by-Side” Connection Works

Adults tend to be goal-oriented. When we commit to something, we want to see immediate progress or measurable results. But Dr. Karcher emphasizes that young people connect best side-by-side rather than face-to-face.

Sitting across a table answering direct questions like “How was school today?” can feel like an interrogation to a child or teen. However, when you’re both focused on an activity—like casting a fishing line, working on a craft, or riding bikes—the pressure vanishes. When your hands are busy having fun, genuine conversations and updates about life happen organically in the quiet moments between the action.

3. The Power of “Serious Playfulness”

One of the most valuable concepts in Chapter 3 is what researchers call a playful approach.

Kids and teens face constant performance pressure—from school grades and sports to social media and family responsibilities. Having an adult present who isn’t evaluating them, grading them, or expecting perfection is rare.

When a mentor approaches an activity with humor, willingness to try new things (and even fail at them lightheartedly), it gives youth permission to drop their defenses. Taking your commitment to a young person seriously doesn’t mean you have to act serious. In fact, showing a young person that it’s okay to laugh at yourself is one of the healthiest behaviors an adult can model.

How This Fits the Mission of Kinship of the Park Rapids Area

This research aligns directly with the heart of Kinship of the Park Rapids Area. We don’t ask our mentors to be tutors, therapists, or strict disciplinarians. We ask them to be supportive adult friends who show up consistently to share simple, positive experiences.

You don’t need special expertise or a fancy itinerary to change a child’s outlook. You just need a couple of hours a month and a willingness to engage.

In the Park Rapids area, play can take almost any shape depending on what you and your mentee enjoy:

• Outdoors: Exploring local trails, visiting Heartland Park, throwing a frisbee, or going ice fishing in the winter.

• Creative & Low-Key: Building a LEGO set, trying a new recipe, drawing, or playing card games at a local coffee shop.

• Exploring Community: Attending local sporting events, checking out community activities, or learning a simple new hobby together.

These low-pressure, everyday moments build resilience, self-confidence, and a sense of belonging that stays with a young person long into the future.

Frequently Asked Questions About Mentoring with Kinship

How much time does it take?

Most matches meet for 4 to 6 hours per month (often broken into two or three short visits). Because activities are flexible, you and your mentee can schedule outings around your work, family, and personal routine.

Is mentoring expensive?

Not at all. In fact, we encourage low-cost or free activities! The goal is connection, not spending money. Walking a local trail, kicking a soccer ball, or doing a craft at home are often the most meaningful outings. Kinship also occasionally hosts free group events for matches.

What if I don’t know what activities to do?

You won’t be on your own! Kinship provides ongoing support, activity ideas, and resources to help you and your mentee find shared interests. Plus, asking your mentee what they like to do is half the fun.

Ready to Bring More Play into a Young Person’s Life?

There are local youth right now waiting for a Kinship mentor—someone to share a laugh with, try new activities with, and rely on for steady encouragement. By investing just a few hours a month, you can offer a young person in our community a safe space to relax, play, and thrive.

• Curious about how our programs work? Take a look through our website to learn about program options and our straightforward onboarding process.

• Ready to make an impact? Step forward and fill out an application today.

👉 Learn More and Apply to Become a Kinship Mentor

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When we look back at the giants of American history—the generals who won our independence, the visionaries who drafted our founding documents, and the leaders who championed civil rights—we often view them as solitary heroes. We imagine they arrived on the stage of history with fully formed genius, ready to change the world alone.

But history tells a much deeper, more human story. The truth is that America’s greatest triumphs were forged through deep, intentional relationships. Behind almost every great American hero was a dedicated mentor—an older, wiser guide who recognized raw potential, invested their time, and fanned the sparks of talent into the brilliant flames of leadership.

As we celebrate this landmark Semiquincentennial, let’s look at three profound examples of mentorship that altered the course of American history, and explore how that same legacy remains alive today through Kinship Park Rapids.

1. The General and the Apprentice: George Washington & Alexander Hamilton

Long before he was the legendary architect of America’s financial system, Alexander Hamilton was a young, brilliant, but fiercely impetuous immigrant. He was eager to serve his adopted country during the Revolutionary War, but his reckless ambition could have easily derailed his future.

Recognizing Hamilton’s immense intellectual gifts, General George Washington selected the young man to serve as his aide-de-camp. Washington did not just give Hamilton tasks; he gave him guidance. In the high-stress crucible of the war, Washington served as a steady, patient father figure. He taught Hamilton how to channel his raw ambition into constructive leadership, navigate political complexities, and command authority.

Years later, President Washington appointed his former apprentice as the nation’s first Secretary of the Treasury. This historic partnership, built on a foundation of mentorship, bridged the gap between wartime survival and the establishment of a stable, thriving republic.

2. The Legal Giant Who Inspired a Visionary: George Wythe & Thomas Jefferson

Thomas Jefferson is immortalized as the primary author of the Declaration of Independence, the document defining our nation’s core creed: that all human beings are endowed with unalienable rights to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. Yet, Jefferson’s profound understanding of law and philosophy did not develop in a vacuum. It was shaped by his mentor, George Wythe.

Wythe was a prominent Virginia lawyer and scholar who would later become a fellow signer of the Declaration. When Jefferson was a young student, Wythe took him under his wing for five consecutive years of intensive legal study and personal mentorship.

Wythe did not just assign readings; he invited Jefferson into his daily life, engaging him in deep philosophical debates and demonstrating unwavering moral integrity. Wythe taught Jefferson how to think critically about the nature of liberty. The bond lasted a lifetime. Jefferson revered Wythe, famously referring to him as his “second father” and “my ancient master.” Without the intellectual grounding provided by George Wythe, the words that defined the American spirit might never have been written.

3. Fanning the Flame of Justice: Dr. Benjamin Mays & Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

To understand how the promise of America has evolved, we must look to the heroes who pushed the nation to live up to its founding ideals. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. is a monumental figure in the fight for equality, but his path toward becoming the voice of a movement was deeply influenced by a mentor named Dr. Benjamin Mays.

Dr. Mays was the president of Morehouse College, a brilliant theologian, and an outspoken critic of segregation. When a teenage Martin Luther King Jr. arrived at the college, he was uncertain about his future, hesitant to enter the ministry, and searching for his purpose.

Dr. Mays noticed the quiet brilliance in the young student. He took the time to engage with King, challenging him to see the ministry not as a passive sanctuary, but as a dynamic force for social justice. Throughout his life, Dr. King referred to Mays as his “intellectual father” and “spiritual mentor,” frequently seeking his counsel during the darkest days of the Civil Rights Movement. Dr. Mays poured his wisdom into a young man, and that young man went on to reshape the moral landscape of America.

Shaping the Next 250 Years in Park Rapids

The history of America is, at its core, a history of mentorship. It is proof that when one generation intentionally invests its time and encouragement into the next, the ripples can change the world.

You don’t have to be a George Washington or a George Wythe to make a monumental difference. You don’t need to be a military general or a college president to change the trajectory of a life. Right here in Park Rapids, there are local youth who are searching for their own voice, navigating their own challenges, and waiting for someone to believe in them.

By becoming a mentor with Kinship Park Rapids, you participate in this grand American tradition. When you spend a few hours a week fishing, working on a project, or simply talking and listening to a young person, you are helping to build the future of our community.

Celebrate With Us This Week!

As we look forward to the spectacular celebrations this weekend, we invite you to connect with the heartbeat of our local community in two very tangible ways:

• Join the Community Celebration: Come out and celebrate America’s 250th birthday at the Park Rapids 4th of July Parade! It is a wonderful, vibrant tradition where neighbors gather, families smile, and our community spirit shines brightest. Keep an eye out for familiar Kinship faces, wave hello, and celebrate the incredible community we share.

• Invest in a Future: Honor America’s legacy of mentorship by making a difference in a local child’s life. Consider signing up to become a Kinship mentor, or make a donation to help us match the youth on our waiting list with the supportive adults they need to thrive.

Happy 250th Birthday, America! Let’s keep the tradition of investment, mentorship, and community alive for generations to come. We will see you at the parade!

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A landmark national report, “The Mentoring Effect: Young People’s Perspectives on the Outcomes and Availability of Mentoring,” sheds light on just how transformative a caring adult can be. Published by Civic Enterprises in association with Hart Research Associates for MENTOR, this first-ever nationally representative survey of young people confirms what we see every day at Kinship of the Park Rapids Area: quality mentoring relationships have a profound, life-altering effect on a young person’s trajectory.

Unfortunately, the report also highlights a stark reality—one that we are actively working to change right here in our local community.

Understanding “The Mentoring Gap”

The research reveals a massive “mentoring gap” across the United States. Nationwide, one in three young people grow up without ever having an adult mentor of any kind, whether through a structured program or a naturally occurring relationship. That means roughly 16 million youth across the country reach age 19 without a mentor’s guidance, including 9 million youth deemed “at-risk” due to various life challenges.

The report notes a difficult paradox: the more risk factors a young person faces—such as poverty, housing instability, or behavioral hurdles at school—the less likely they are to find a naturally occurring mentor in their everyday lives.

Here in Park Rapids, our youth face these exact same challenges. When a child lacks a supportive adult outside the home, their potential is too often left to chance. At Kinship of the Park Rapids Area, our mission is to step into that gap and ensure that no child in our community has to navigate life’s hurdles alone.

The Proven Impact: Why Mentoring Works

The voices of the young people surveyed in the report offer undeniable proof that mentoring works. Mentees who had a structured or informal mentor reported significantly better outcomes across academic, social, and personal metrics compared to those who did not.

When we look at at-risk young adults, the numbers speak for themselves:

• Higher Educational Goals: 76% of at-risk youth with a mentor aspired to enroll in and graduate from college, compared to just 56% of those without a mentor.

• College Enrollment: 45% of mentored at-risk youth enrolled in postsecondary education, compared to only 29% of their unmentored peers.

• Community Leadership: Mentored youth are more than twice as likely to hold a leadership position in a club, school council, or sports team (51% versus 22%).

• Civic Engagement: 48% of youth with mentors volunteer regularly in their communities, compared to 27% of those without.

Mentoring helps local kids build the self-esteem and resilience needed to become the future leaders, volunteers, and workforce of Park Rapids.

Longevity Matters: Commitment in Our Community

One of the most vital insights from The Mentoring Effect is that the length of the relationship matters. Young people in structured mentoring relationships reported a massive jump in helpfulness when the match lasted longer. In fact, youth satisfaction doubled when relationships lasted more than a year. Mentees in longer-term relationships also reported better outcomes in educational aspirations, sports participation, and community volunteering.

“The consistent, enduring presence of a caring adult in a young person’s life can be the difference between staying in school or dropping out, making healthy decisions or engaging in risky behaviors, and realizing one’s potential or failing to achieve one’s dreams.”

At Kinship, we don’t just look for quick fixes. We strive to build enduring, high-quality matches that provide Park Rapids youth with a safe, consistent anchor as they grow.

How You Can Move Park Rapids Forward

The report notes that investing in quality youth mentoring programs yields a minimum $3 return in benefits to society for every $1 invested. By supporting Kinship of the Park Rapids Area, you are directly investing in the social and economic fabric of our local community.

We cannot close the mentoring gap alone. We need local community members to step up and get involved in three key ways:

1. Become a Mentor

You don’t need a background in youth development to change a life. You just need to show up, listen, and care. By committing to spend consistent, quality time with a local child, you can help them navigate school, build confidence, and stay on the right path.

Apply to Become a Mentor

2. Become a Donor

Every dollar donated to Kinship stays local, helping us recruit, screen, match, and continuously support mentoring pairs. Your financial partnership ensures that we can maintain evidence-based standards of safety and quality, creating matches that last for years.

Donate Today

3. Join Our Board of Directors

If you want to advocate for youth development at a strategic level, consider serving on our board. We need passionate community leaders who can help us expand our reach, secure resources, and champion the mentoring movement throughout the Park Rapids area.

Apply to Become a Board Member

Where a child starts in life should not determine how far they can climb. Let’s make sure the youth of Park Rapids aren’t left to chance. Visit our get-involved page or contact us today to find out how you can become the difference in a local child’s life.

View the Full Report Here

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We live in a community that genuinely shows up for one another. Whether it’s rallying behind a family in need, protecting our natural resources, or ensuring our youth and seniors are supported, Park Rapids operates like one big team. This interconnectedness doesn’t happen by accident. It is intentionally built every single day by an extraordinary network of local nonprofits, service clubs, and volunteers.

The Power of a Connected Community

It turns out that our “small-town feel” and strong support systems have measurable benefits. Sociologists use the term social capital to describe the economic and social value that comes from local networks and trust.

According to extensive data from organizations like the Stanford Center on Longevity and the National Civic League, communities with high numbers of active civic organizations and volunteer participation experience significant advantages:

• Higher Resilience: Towns with tightly knit civic networks recover faster from local economic hardships or unexpected challenges.

• Better Public Health: Regular community connection lowers rates of isolation and depression, particularly among youth and aging populations.

• Enhanced Youth Outcomes: When young people grow up in an environment where they see adults actively volunteering, they achieve higher graduation rates and demonstrate greater emotional well-being.

In short, when we serve together, we don’t just fix individual problems—we strengthen the entire foundation of the place we love.

A Snapshot of the Changemakers in Our Backyard

We are incredibly fortunate to have a massive variety of organizations working behind the scenes to keep Park Rapids thriving. Every club and nonprofit brings a unique focus, but they all share the same ultimate goal: making our community a safer, healthier, and more vibrant place to live.

• Civic Leadership: Legacy service clubs like the Park Rapids Lions and Rotary Clubs are the ultimate catalysts for local projects, raising thousands of dollars for community upgrades, parks, and charitable causes.

• Youth Safety and Advocacy: Organizations like Hubbard in Prevention work tirelessly to keep our kids safe and healthy, while YESS (Youth Emergency Shelter & Support) provides a critical lifeline and safe spaces for local youth facing housing instability.

• Preserving Care and Dignity: Living at Home helps our senior neighbors maintain their independence and stay safely in their own homes, while MAHUBE-OTWA delivers vital resources like energy assistance, housing support, and Head Start programs to families across the region.

• Our Heritage and Environment: The All Veterans Memorial stands as a beautiful testament to our deep respect for those who served. Meanwhile, organizations like our local Lakes Association guard our waters, and the Itascatur Outdoor Activity Club maintains the trails that keep us healthy, active, and connected to nature.

Kinship: Building Connections, One Relationship at a Time

Right alongside these incredible agencies, we at Kinship of the Park Rapids Area are proud to do our part. Our mission is centered around one simple, powerful concept: mentorship. We connect adult mentors with local youth, creating supportive friendships that guide children through life’s ups and downs.

Just like a service club builds a park or an environmental group protects a lake, a Kinship mentor helps build a child’s confidence, resilience, and future. It is a deeply personal way to get involved in the Park Rapids web of support, and the ripple effects last a lifetime.

See the Connection in Action: The “Stronger Together” Project

If you want to witness the incredible spirit of Park Rapids firsthand—or if you have been looking for the perfect way to get involved but aren’t quite sure where to start—we have a date for your calendar.

On Saturday, August 15, the Park Rapids Lions are hosting the Stronger Together Project from 2:00 PM to 7:00 PM.

This special event is designed to bring our community’s diverse service organizations together under one roof. It is the perfect, low-pressure opportunity to walk around, meet the people behind the organizations listed above, and discover how you can contribute your unique talents to our community. Whether you have two hours a month or two days a week to give, there is a place where your time will make a massive difference.

We are a great community because we choose to look out for one another. Let’s keep that tradition alive. Come out on August 15, celebrate the incredible network that holds Park Rapids together, and find your own way to get involved. After all, we truly are stronger together!

To learn more about the event logistics, you can view the official listing on the Park Rapids Lakes Area Chamber of Commerce Events Calendar.

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Right now, we have a growing waiting list of amazing kids who are ready to welcome a mentor into their lives.

A Note on Privacy: To protect the safety and privacy of the children in our program, all names in this article have been changed and generic photos are used. However, these are very real, wonderful kids living right here in our community who are waiting for a mentor.

Who is Waiting?

Here are just a few glimpses into the lives of the youth currently on our waiting list. Could you be the match they’ve been waiting for?

“Ben” – Age 10

Ben is a chill, social guy who is great at making friends at school, though a few of his close buddies are moving away soon. He is a big sports fan, loves playing soccer, and enjoys spending hours jumping on the trampoline. While his family is big into cars and loud hobbies, Ben prefers a quieter, more athletic vibe. He is looking for a mentor who shares his love for fishing and sports, and someone he can connect with one-on-one. It might take him a little time to open up, but he is incredibly ready to find a mentor to spend time with this summer.

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“Lily” – Age 8

Lily is a quiet, imaginative girl who just wrapped up the second grade. She is quite shy around new people, but once she gets comfortable, her bright personality shines through. Lily is a big fan of drawing, reading books of all kinds, playing Roblox, and eating pizza. She also loves water activities and jumping on the trampoline. Lily comes from a very large, busy household and has been patiently waiting for a Kinship match for over a year and a half. She would benefit immensely from some dedicated, individual attention outside of her hectic home.

“Maya” – Age 15

If you love creativity and conversation, Maya might be your perfect match. She describes herself as a total chatterbox and is incredibly energetic and compassionate. Maya lives with her mom and loves art, creative writing, playing softball, and spending time outside. Maya has shown incredible resilience through some difficult family transitions over the past couple of years. She is currently doing well and working hard on her personal growth, but after a previous match closed a couple of years ago, she is so ready for a stable, consistent mentor to walk alongside her as she turns 16 this summer.

“Chloe” & “Harper” – Age 11

Chloe and Harper are close-knit step-sisters who share a ton of the same hobbies. They are both active in competitive dance, love playing basketball and volleyball, and enjoy quieter activities like baking and solving puzzles. These friendly, fun girls could easily start out by sharing a mentor together, or they could each benefit from having their own unique mentor to celebrate their individual identities. They’ve seen how much fun Kinship can be through extended family, and they are excited to experience it for themselves.

Photo by Anna Shvets: https://www.pexels.com/photo/happy-multiethnic-stylish-teenage-friends-with-skateboard-and-backpack-5325913/

The Need is Growing—And You Can Help

This is just a small snapshot. We receive new inquiries from families all the time, and our waiting list continues to grow. What we need more than anything right now are mentors.

Becoming a mentor isn’t about being perfect, and it doesn’t require a massive lifestyle change. It’s about introducing a youth to the simple, everyday things you already love to do—whether that’s fishing, baking, shooting hoops, or just grabbing a slice of pizza. It is incredibly easy to welcome one of these kids into your routine, but the positive, long-term impact on their life can last forever.

Ready to Learn More? Let’s Connect!

If you’re curious about how you can help but aren’t sure where to start, we have a couple of great, zero-pressure ways for you to get to know us:

1. Fill Out a Quick Application

Head over to kinshipparkrapids.org and fill out our online application. Please note: filling out an application does not represent a commitment. Think of it simply as a formal “hello, I’d like to learn more!” It helps us get to know you so we can chat about what kind of match might be a perfect fit for your lifestyle.

2. Join Us for “Coffee with Kinship”

Want to chat in person over a great cup of coffee? Come see us at our monthly Coffee with Kinship event!

• When: The 4th Thursday of every month (3rd Thursday in November and December), starting at 8:00 AM.

• Where: Bella Caffé, located at 116 3rd St W in Park Rapids.

• What to expect: You can meet our Executive Director, Brandon Mustful, learn more about our mission, and discover just how easy and rewarding mentoring can be. Whether you want to ask questions about becoming a mentor or learn how to enroll a child, we would love to see you there!

The youth in our community are waiting. Will you be the one to answer the call?

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While all of those are wonderful parts of the mentoring journey, there is a deeper layer to building a truly transformative relationship with a young person. It comes down to communication—knowing how to listen, how to ask the right questions, and how to empower youth to discover their own potential.

Recently, several of our dedicated Kinship mentors took a powerful step forward in their mentoring journeys. They gathered for an intensive training session in Motivational Interviewing (MI) led by the fantastic Scott Nygaard of Legacy Group, LLC. It was an incredible, hands-on experience that went far beyond mere lecturing. Our mentors didn’t just learn about Motivational Interviewing; they stepped into the arena and actively practiced these life-changing communication skills.

The experience left us inspired, energized, and deeply convinced of just how valuable MI is for mentors, volunteers, and anyone looking to make a meaningful difference in the Park Rapids community.

What is Motivational Interviewing?

At its core, Motivational Interviewing is an evidence-based, collaborative conversational style. Instead of telling a young person what to do, giving unsolicited advice, or lecturing them on behavior changes, MI is designed to spark a person’s internal motivation. It utilizes specific, open-ended questioning, reflective listening, and affirmation to help individuals explore and resolve their own ambivalence about change.

In a mentoring context, this is absolute magic. When a youth is struggling with school, navigating peer pressure, or trying to make positive choices, a mentor trained in MI doesn’t swoop in to “fix” the problem. Instead, they guide the conversation in a way that allows the mentee to voice their own arguments for positive change. It honors the youth’s autonomy, builds their self-confidence, and strengthens the trust between mentor and mentee.

Learning a Skill is Like Learning a Language

One of our biggest takeaways from Scott Nygaard’s training was a profound truth about how we communicate: Motivational Interviewing is a skill that must be practiced. You wouldn’t expect to pick up a guitar for the first time and instantly play a flawless concerto. You wouldn’t expect to read a textbook on French and immediately speak it fluently on the streets of Paris. Communication is no different. It is a muscle.

Many of us have default patterns of talking. We want to solve problems quickly, so we jump straight into “fixing mode” or advice-giving. Shifting away from that instinct and moving toward a reflective, patient MI approach takes time, intentionality, and a lot of repetition. It requires practicing the art of the open-ended question, mastering the pause, and learning how to reflect back what a young person is feeling rather than just what they are saying.

Our mentors spent their training doing exactly that: practicing, making mistakes, adjusting, and trying again. And the beautiful thing about MI is that it isn’t just for formal mentoring sessions. We want to encourage everyone in our community to practice these empathetic communication skills in their daily lives—with your spouses, your children, your coworkers, and your neighbors. Imagine how much stronger our community would be if we all practiced the art of truly listening to understand, rather than just listening to reply.

Dive into the Resources Yourself

Whether you are already volunteering, thinking about getting involved, or simply want to sharpen your own communication skills, there are fantastic tools available to help you.

We highly recommend checking out this amazing, free resource: MENTOR’s Motivational Interviewing for Mentors Toolkit. Developed in partnership with the Youth Empowerment in Schools and Systems (YESS) Lab at the University of South Carolina, this toolkit offers free online training modules, refresher videos, and brief guides designed specifically to help mentors master this conversational style on their own. It is an invaluable asset for anyone looking to foster deeper connections with youth.

You Are Supported Every Step of the Way

If you’ve ever thought about volunteering with youth but felt held back by a voice whispering, “What if I don’t know what to say?” or “What if I’m not equipped to handle their struggles?”—we want to reassure you.

At Kinship, you are never thrown into a mentoring relationship empty-handed. We believe that to be a successful mentor, you need a strong foundation. That’s why we are deeply committed to providing our volunteers with continuous, high-quality professional development, resources, and hands-on workshops like our recent session with Legacy Group, LLC.

When you become a Kinship mentor, you join a supportive family. We equip you with the tools, the peer network, and the training you need to feel confident and successful. You bring the heart and the time; we will help you build the skills.

Make a Difference in Park Rapids: Become a Mentor

Are you looking for meaningful volunteer opportunities in Park Rapids, MN? Are you searching for Hubbard County youth programs where you can make a tangible, lasting impact?

There are young people right here in our community waiting for a supportive adult to walk alongside them. By giving just a few hours a month, you can change the trajectory of a local child’s life.

We invite you to explore how you can get involved. Visit our website at kinshipparkrapids.org to learn more about our local mentoring programs, read stories of match successes, and fill out a mentor application.

Let’s work together to build a stronger, more connected Park Rapids—one conversation, and one relationship, at a time.

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